Its April 13th, 2023 and I have noticed that I have not blogged since being in the UK in July. After concentrating on submissive work since 2016 I am slowly transitioning out of offering heavy BDSM and corporal punishment sessions, and am now focussing on my Domme persona Mistress Tahlia. As you all know being submissive is important to me, and my partner/ Master and I met through my submissive work so I am forever grateful for that, however there is an unknown factor going into any new BDSM sub booking that there just isn’t going in a Domme booking.

In my 20+ years of taking heavy CP submissive sessions I have never experienced a thrashing that I couldn’t take, and can count on one hand the number of times I’ve had to say a safe word. About 6 months ago I entered into a two hour switch session and literally took the thrashing of my life. It was cold and I enjoyed it, and the client was seriously good at giving the cane. I left elated and very proud of myself. We were both very chuffed and I was on a high for a few days, until I wasn’t. I was thoroughly marked and bruised for 6 weeks, and aside from feeling very run down and tired, those marks could be seen in a Mistress booking I did a few days later, and then in clips I made a few weeks later for an overseas client. So, long story short, I don’t want to risk doing that to my body anymore and I get a similar rush in Domme sessions which often end up paying the same and don’t leave me spent and healing.

So what am I currently offering? Well! I love to be spanked and caned – as I put it on twitter I am going down the ‘SPANK me LOVE me’ type of submission over the ‘PUNISH’ me ‘HURT’ me BDSM/ psychological sub stuff. Sexy/ horny role plays and erotic content is always available. Strict BDSM and heavy psychological role plays I am no longer offering so Sadists, I apologise for this. Full-service bookings I can do as long as there is a kinky/ bent role-play. Vanilla sex is not my vibe but if you are a complete newbie and open to me corrupting you with my fantasies then yes, ok.  Any questions please don’t be shy to ask!