I will refrain from the desperate cliche of admitting I haven’t blogged in a while and cut straight to the chase. I am in London on holidays and thought I would test the waters and put an ad up on spankee finder to see if any knight in shining armour were up for spanking and Aussie bottom like me.
I have a penchant for all things British – my Master is British and most of the Doms I see in Australia are British or have spent some time in England as a youth. I believe CP fantasies stem from an interaction with items use for discipling children at schools. Roald Dahl speaks at length in many of his childrens books as well as his autobiography about the abuse disguised as punishment at the hands of school Master in his time. It would require some research but can be assumed that corporal punishment was fazed out over the last 40 or so years. It was certainly never very prominent in Australia and I can example this in the amount of CP enthusiasts my country has when paralleled with Britain.
A favourite quote of mine is that “A good sadist is hard to find.” At first opportunity I came to the UK to seek out the many CP fetishists and sadists that internet would suggest it has. That first trip around 18 months ago I saw a lot of Masters and enjoyed many many many strokes of the cane. My bottom was black and blue and striped for a month and, in fact, had to utilise the space on the backs of my thighs seeing as I’d run out of spots that weren’t numb!
I wanted to comment about why it is hard for a professional submissive to accept every session requested. After 2 years of offering heavy CP sessions I feel I am at liberty to comment on this. The spectrum of punishment execution is a vast one. As the slave of an extremely sadistic Master into giving very heavy canings my point of reference for a “heavy” session is probably more sinister than most would imagine and usually if I were approached by a potential Master who requested severe caning I would be apprehensive and likely to charge a lot more. In Australia have a very heavy caning client who pays me $20 Australian per stroke. I have posted footage of him on my twitter account caning me and his caning technique is indeed very severe. What isn’t so severe is the care that he provides me between strokes, and the gentle encouragement I receive throughout the session. He gently rubs my bottom between each stroke and asks when I am ready for the next one. I would consider this Master to be a CP fetishist and not really sadistic.
Some enquiries I get ask for heavy discipline then go on to brag that “I’m going to get it.” I rarely take on bookings presented in this manner although I am sure I am more equipped than most to manage it. I would consider this request to be a sadistic one. Perhaps the threat is idle but I don’t fancy taking on bookings with strangers who approach me with this attitude.
The umbrella of “sadist” unfortunately covers all forms of Dominant into CP from the erotic thrill of lifting the skirt up and asking a lady to bend over and touch her toes to the execution of strokes of the cane, with no care for technique only that it causes pain. I think a lot of potential Masters don’t consider this when contacting a professional submissive. I wanted to apologise in advance for all the kurt exchanges and truncation of correspondence some of you may have received over the years and hope this had shed some light on what goes on for the professional submissives of the world: the women who offer their bodies for you to hurt.
In London I advertise on spankee finder under the “Spankee” section, not the escort section. Even though I do offer FS I enjoy the calibre of clientele that reach out to me as a pure spankee. Spanking is such a British thing, being put over the knee is such a British thing, spanking over the panties is such a British thing. Being a gentleman, dressing to impress, being punctual and enjoying good conversation before and after it what I have experienced on my London tours. Lets suggest that is a British thing.
There is a huge disparity in the pricing between the two cities and I believe this is probably because it is much more of a niche market down in the colonies. My price for caning in London is 250GBP/ hour. For Sydney its $800AUD.
I am now returning home to Sydney – I will be in Perth December 20 – 24. I’d wish you all a Merry Xmas however it NOVEMBER!!
Thank you to the Master who caned me today – I had a bloody lovely time and gagging for more.