There is humiliation and there is humiliation. It’s the most advanced form of domination and takes the deepest understanding of emotional control to obtain perfection. As an apprentice at Salon Kittys in 2002 I was lucky to be Dominated by the enigmatic Mistress Martina (retired). It was my first soiree into psychological submission and I was impressed at how well it was executed. I was genuinely picked on for wrongdoings, reprimanded and punished/ reformed for them. An example was that Master had a tissue stuck to his shoe. This was of course my fault as the slave for not noticing and thus required the administration of 10 strokes. Another very early memory came from Master David (names changed for discretion) who requested I hold a silver bowl out in front of me whilst on my bare knees on the concrete dungeon floor and catch his urine in it. This is physical humiliation. It becomes psychological humiliation when he adds that what I can smell in the bowl is in fact his gout medication impregnated in his urine. I cringed and quivered at the same time but dared not drop that bowl. Master David liked me as I was very young and eager. He despised G-strings and required I always wear full briefs into his sessions. As an apprentice I can relay another form of physical and mental humiliation in that a senior Mistress made me change into a g-string for his session, thus setting me up to fail and sending me into an already vulnerable state, broken before entering the room. I left that day in tears, completely broken. An apprentice who had learned her place the hard way. I cried for about 6 hours that night. In hindsight I applaud that senior Mistress for a job very well done. I was emotionally spent and went on to have a crush on her for the next 12 months.
In my personal life I enjoy submission and being beaten because my Dominant feels like doing it to me so creating miniscule infractions in order to punish me is not a favourite fantasy of mine. If you would like help with learning about ways to emotionally and physically humiliate your slave I suggest hiring an experienced Mistress for a Master training session. By experienced I mean at least 10 years in the biz!